Wednesday, September 11, 2013

How I think 9-11 anniversary should be remembered...


            Twelve years ago I was waking as a college Junior to take my first test of the year in a Religious Studies class that I loved.  Soon enough the test was out of my mind and the tragedy that ensued in Manhattan and Washington were on the forefront of my mind.  I remember feeling horror, fear, sadness and shock.  I had never felt so helpless, hopeless and angry.  As the day went on and the days followed September 11, 2001 I also remember never feeling so connected to humanity and never seeing such unity in the America and the world.  The world rallied to our side, they supported America in a way that we hadn’t seen in so long.  One million Iranians came out for a candlelight vigil in Tehran and prayed for and supported America and the thousands of victims from the horrific events of the day.  The labels of Republican and Democrat were replaced by American.  It was an amazing thing to see the unity that came from the horror. 

            Twelve years later this unity is gone.  The United States invaded Iraq, started rendition, began water boarding, holding prisoners at Guantanamo and lost any moral high ground we may have once had.  Worldwide polls now show people believe that the greatest threat to world peace is America.  The hatred that Republicans have for liberalism and the disrespect that Democrats have for conservatives have replaced American as their number one allegiance.  The toxic nature of politics in America is truly frightening.  In a short time we have gotten a collective case of amnesia and seemingly have not learned anything from the horror of 9-11-01.

            How then are we to remember this day?  I think we should do so soberly and with seriousness.  If we recall, in their last moments what did so many of the victims on 9-11 do?  They called their loved ones and said, “I love you.  Thank you.”  They reminded their loved ones that they loved them and said thank you for being a great husband, son, brother, friend, etc… 

            I think that is the best way we can remember today.  Not by flying a flag or rallying nationalistic support, but going to those whom we love and reminding them how thankful we are for them and how much we appreciate their love. 

            It seems to me this may be how the victims of that day would like today to be remembered.  My encouragement is to simply do just that.  Go to those whom you love the most and take some time to remind them how much they mean to you.  All too often we don’t do this because our pride gets in the way, but we can’t do life without those closest to us.  Life is a team sport; rugged individualism will get us nowhere.  We should take today to remember those we love and explicitly remind them of how much we love them and need them.  

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